<aside> đĄ Whatâs all this for?
These are the companion resources for the DYF Accountability Buddy Finder tool.
The DYF Accountability Buddy Finder tool matches you with a buddy to give you the one-on-one âchase you down accountabilityâ needed to help you reach your goals.
Access is included free for all DYF Accelerator & University members đ or you can purchase access as a standalone product here.
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Sometimes things donât work out. Such is life. đ€·
The awkward part is communicating that theyâre not working out.
In the case of accountability buddies, it can be difficult to find a perfect fit where it feels like an equal value exchange.
(Thatâs why itâs so important to leverage a tool that helps you pre-filter to find people with a similar experience level & path â [cough], like the DYF Accountability Buddy Finder, [cough cough].)
But alas, even with pre-filtering and exploratory calls, sometimes it doesnât work out.
Use the scripts below to make the breakup message easier to write and less awkward. đ
I have Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, and I could see a world where an accountability buddy breaking up with me triggers a shame spiral.
But try not to let it!
Remember that the breakup isnât indicative of some problem with you â itâs just your buddy saying that it doesnât feel like the right fit for them.
Most likely youâre a perfectly awesome person, and they just need some specific thing from you that you couldnât provide without compromising your own path, which we donât want.
So rememberâŠ
There are plenty of other âaccountability fish in the seaâ and by getting a buddy whoâs a better fit for you, you open yourself up to the âaccountability buddy partnership of your dreams.â
(That reads like I lifted it from some âcoping with a divorceâ pamphlet, I know)